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Good Online Dating Profile Photos May Get You More Matches

Online dating has grown in popularity than ever before. It’s just not young men and women looking to find their dates online, even veterans too, have started looking for love. However, people get frustrated when they don’t get much response after setting up their online dating profile, and in some cases, they quit.

But, did you ever think that whether if your bad profile pictures are the main reasons your potential suitors aren't interested in your profile? Having a lovable and decent profile picture is a must if you want to successful in getting attention from people online. Whether they check your profile or not, people are going to make judgments on your online profile based on your photos. Here are few tips that you should remember when uploading your online dating profile photo.

1. Don’t upload blurry, dark or oversaturated photos. Also, don’t upload flash-induced ‘red eye’ pictures of you or with your eyes closed. Don’t post pictures that have the time stamped on them. Don’t post extremely close-up photos or selfies, or with your tongue sticking out. It’s terrible.

2. Never post a profile photo while wearing a costume. It may seem funny to you, but for someone looking for you, it may look utterly strange and awkward.

3. Don’t post profile photos while wearing sunglasses. It’s okay if you upload a few pictures of yourself with shades, but not all of them. If you show off a picture of yourself wearing sunglasses on the beach, it’s cool. Remember, your matches also want to see your eyes.

4. Posting party shots are bad. You don’t want your matches to see you enjoying yourself with your friends with martini glasses or beer cans in your hand. After seeing your party shot images, your match might make the assumption that partying is a big part of your life.

5. Avoid sharing photos you took with an opposite sex without any explanation. A lot of people have online dating profile picture with someone of the opposite sex. They even post a text on the picture which is the person on that particular photo. It makes your match wonder who the other person in the picture is. Mostly think it’s their ex. And you don’t your matches to assume that one.

6. Don’t post images where it can clearly be seen that someone cut or removed their faces out using programs like Photoshop. These types of pictures are pretty common to find on most online dating sites.

7. Don’t post photos that you’ve taken in your car or bathroom. No one is interested in the interiors of your car or bathroom.

8. Never upload hunting pictures, shots of you holding weapons, or posing next to a dead animal you killed. This isn’t only scary, and it makes people uncomfortable and gives them an impression that you like kill birds and animals for fun.

If you decided to have relationship and looking for a woman or man online, please put some effort, time and thought in your photos, because they’re very important. Ask your close friends to take some beautiful, attractive and appealing pictures of yourself. Use the headshot or medium shot as your main cover photo. Also, don’t forget to include a full-length body photo as well.

Happy dating!


Seven Things Single People Are Fed Up of Hearing

It appears that people who are in relationships are very much interested in the lives of their single friends more than their own lives. So, it’s no surprise their single friends are annoyed and tired of their nosy questions and comments such, ‘why are you still single,' or ‘why aren’t you dating anyone?’ And so on. When your reply them in a negative tone, they get all judgmental and make you feel less worthy than them.

Okay, let me tell one thing, there is nothing wrong with you being single. So, don’t let your friends make you feel less. Secondly, when someone asks you these types of questions, it’s okay to make them feel guilty. Here are some questions all those single folks are tired of hearing and how to respond to them in a sarcastic and witty way.

1. You will find love when you least expect it

Well not exactly. You need to put some effort to locate the person you need to fall in love with. If your pals tell you this, let them know that it’s up to you on how to live your life and look for the right person to have a relationship.

2. You get lonely sometimes, right?

Yes, single people sometimes get lonely. But, it is even worse when you feel lonely and miserable despite being in a relationship. Why do you ask? It’s because being married or being in a relationship with a man or woman is one of the worst things to happen to a person’s life as neither can satisfy or fulfill each other’s physical, mental and emotional needs.

3. Are you anxious that you can’t have children?

Women are having babies at their 40s. So, there is a better chance that you too will have kids. Tell your overly caring girlfriend that it’s your body, and it’s your choice when to become a mother.

4. Try online dating, it’s great

Tell your friend to buzz off, when he or she got all excited and cheered up when they tell you to try online dating. We all have tried online dating. Some like it, some have good experiences using it if it’s working for them significantly. Some don’t like it. So, its better you don’t remind them of it.

5. There are plenty of fish in the sea

Just because there are plenty of fish in the sea, don’t always give you a chance to catch one. It takes around ten dates to get one date, with who most men and women will consider going for a second date.

6. You’re still single because you’re just too picky

There is a big difference when it comes to looking what you want to see in a person that will be right for you to be in a healthy relationship. Then there is nitpicking; here you’re trying to find something wrong with someone.

7. Let me set you up with someone

Blind dates work out; sometimes they go wrong. It’s all about being creative and how can you handle the situation. We suggest your friend bring along your blind date, so he or she can meet in a group setting to avoid anything awkward.

Always keep a positive outlook when you’re single, and have faith in yourself that one day you will meet a girl who will be willing to accept who you are and want to be your partner.


Four Body Language Signs That Says a Man Is Interested In You

Sometimes you don’t need someone to verbally tell you they’re attracted or interested in you, particularly when it comes to men. We all know that unlike women, men like to convey their feelings and thoughts by acting on it. After all, actions speak louder than words.

Here are four of a man’s body language that easily tells that he is interested in you and is looking forward for the magical word, ‘yes’ from you. Read on to check it out:

Eye Contact

If a guy is into you, he will make sheepish and an almost awkward eye contact with you. If you catch him red-handed staring at you and if he quickly looks somewhere else it indicates that he surely is interested in you. When you get close to his face, you’ll notice his pupils are dilated, which usually happens if we look at someone we like! If a man is attracted to you, he will make direct eye contact with you. Guys who have high self-esteem and confidence will make a serious eye contact, and when these men are interested in you and made you their mission, it’s a sign that he wants to take the relationship to the next level. However, we would like to advise the ladies to notice if this eye contact is lusty or if he wants to get to know you better and intends to be in a relationship with you.

A Good Listener

When a guy is interested in you, he will pay attention and listen to you while having a conversation. He will lean towards you when you talk. He will make eye contact with you when you’re speaking. A guy will also physically turn his body to towards you. This is nothing but a flirtatious move by him, and it’s great. Sometimes if a guy is interested in you will wander off, but doesn’t mean that he’s not interested, he’s just readjusting his attention.

He Never Looks At His Phone

These days most of us are programmed to respond to things like phone calls, text messages, emails, tweets, and so forth. Most men and women place their smartphones on the tables so they never miss a notification while on dates. It's a bad dating etiquette. But, if a guy switched off his phone, or turned his phone into “Silent Mode,” or left his phone in his pocket, and never looked at it once, just to have an undisturbed date with you, then it can only mean one thing! He likes you and dreams to have a relationship with you.

His Body Position

If a man is interested in you, he will get to know you better. He will square his shoulders towards you, which is a sign that he’s interested. He will also point his feet towards you, and spread his leg slightly, and he’ll certainly face you. He will adjust his belt, watch, tie or restyle his hair. He does it to try to get you to look at his face subconsciously.

The bottom line is that if a man is interested in a woman, he will do all sort of things, verbally or gives hints with his body or flirt with her to lure her or grab her attention. If he’s lusting for you or is in love with you, that’s a whole different thing.


How To Bring Back The Heat In Your Relationship?

Whoever is dating or in a relationship, they all want the same thing – a romantic relationship that is sizzling hot! However, most of us who are in a long-term relationship can deny the harsh truth the spark in the relationship tends to fizzle out over time. This can detrimental for the relationship and in worse case, anger, frustration and resentment shows its ugly head in the relationship.

However, the good news is there are some simple ways you can reignite the flames in your relationship. Read on find out:

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Love Letters. Back in the old days, when there was no smartphones, computers, and internet, people used to communicate using letters. Professing love to your special someone was considered an art. If you really want to bring back the romance in your relationship, stop using your smartphones and computers for a few minutes, take a pen and write a heartfelt, loving letter to your partner. You don’t have a write like Shakespeare; just say what you feel about your partner in your heart. Now, post that letter using an envelope. Giving the fact the writing love letters is almost dead; receiving one in this day and age will surely make a beautiful impression.

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Spending Quality Time with Your Partner. Taking long walks together; walking side by side with no particular location or place is more like a romantic meditation. Taking long walks with our partners helps to settle our feelings, thoughts and encourages us to be more open to our partners. These days we get easily distracted while dating due to loud music, traffic jams, crowds, noisy restaurants, etc. and this makes us hard to focus on our partners exclusively. Dating isn’t about how many things you can juggle at one time and still focus on your date. The primary purpose of dating and spending quality time with each other is to focus all of your attention to him or her, tell them who you really are, what your life plans are and what you want in life, and in a life partner.

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Homemade Dinners. Bringing two people close to each other over a candlelit homemade dinner is has turned into a lost art. There are reasons for as couples don’t want to invest their efforts into this romantic gesture to spice up their marriage or relationship as there are plenty of alternative options. You can get ready-made dinners from the supermarkets or order takeout restaurants which are at every other corner. But, there is inherently something seductive in enjoying a homemade meal prepared with love in mind. It’s the loving effort, time and creativity that can reignite the flame in a stale relationship.

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Creative Gift Giving. If your want to present your spouse with a thoughtful gift, it has to be imaginative, meaningful and unique. The gift should mean what you feel and love about your partner. To give such commands observation, attention and the utmost effort to make it truly emotional and right. For example, you just can’t gift your wife a book. Buy them the book written by the author she loves and is her favorite. If you see that her favorite perfume bottle is empty, go and grab a new one, before she notices.

There are many ways you can bring back the spark in your relationship. You can surprise her with amazing vacation, try a new technique to satisfy her physically and emotionally, but it’s the reinforcement of the emotional aspects of the relationship discussed above that will truly spice up your relationship.


Is It A Good Idea To Change Yourself For Someone Else?

When it comes to dating, is it a good idea to reinvent yourself or change into someone else to be befitting to your new partner? Read on to find out if you are changing yourself for the better or changing into someone else to get someone love you back.

Being passionate about finding love

Folks say that you will always find love when you least look for it or maybe they never told you to set up a profile on an online dating site. Be proactive when looking for love. Go to dinner parties, social events, ask your friends to introduce to their friends (male or female), take cooking or rock climbing classes, etc. It’s a great way to meet and know other people, where you can easily find someone who shares common interests with you.

Get in shape

High self-esteem and confidence is the key to finding and attracting a perfect mate, especially when you’re still single. See, it’s understandable to see people who are in a long-term relationship being lazy and not taking too much care” of their physical looks. If you’re looking for love, it’s imperative that you get physically active, change your diet and get healthy. Getting in shape won’t only make you appear physically appealing; it will also make you feel confident.

Update yourself about your responsibilities you will have in your relationship

When you’re in a long-term relationship, the roles you usually take in the relationship change over time. It can be as easy as taking your partner for the occasional dinner or go on a vacation, or it can be dramatic and harsh when your partner doesn’t want to take on dates, buy your gifts and don’t like to spend some alne time together. For example, he wants you to organize a vacation, and you’re concerned that he won’t get good deals on the hotels. Whatever you do, discuss it with your partner about it and make the decision together, which will make your relationship even better.

So, when do you realize that you started to change too much?

If you’re taking the concept of reinventing yourself too seriously, there is a possibility that you might start losing your identity. There is a chance that if you change too much, you might lose some friends and even family members. It is okay to make your boyfriend or girlfriend your top priority here, but it’s only critical that you maintain a sense of yourself and who you are. Don’t discard your hobbies, interests, and passions just to make your partner love you or make him or her happy. And keep in mind, if they expect or ask you to do, then maybe he or she isn’t the right person for you.

Always keep your views, feelings, and thoughts to yourself, especially if you’re in an exclusive relationship or married. This is often the case with women as the society implies them that if they expressed their thoughts and feelings verbally, their partners might leave the relationship. We would recommend women not to voice their opinions in an aggressive manner. But, it is also necessary to ensure that your partner respects your feelings when you express them without feeling intimidated or judged.

The bottom line is sometimes it is helpful to change or reinvent yourself to some extend to accommodate your partner, particularly when you’re in a new relationship. To raise the bar of your intimacy, you can find this loving technique very helpful. But don’t change too much in which you lose your identity and later regret when the relationship ends.


Not in A Relationship? Celebrate Being Single, Instead!

On Valentine’s Day, it comes evident, half of the world as in relationships, while the other half are singles. But, that shouldn’t stop you from being happy. At least for some time, there are so many reasons why being single can be a good experience. Here are some of the valuable perks of being single:

1. You Don’t Have Anyone Nagging You

Relationships are nagging are synonymous to some degree. If your partner keeps nagging at you always, it can kill the loving feelings in the relationship. And the last thing you want to hear after your partner nags at you and says, “I love you.” Nagging is serious as its one of the main reasons relationships break up. Luckily for you, you are single. So, don’t worry about it.

2. Being single allows you to be spontaneous

We understand that singles are tempted to romanticise relationships as they aren’t in one. Most single men and women romanticise that they can hardly wait to meet their soul mates and take them to all romantic vacations all over the world, which they’ve been fantasising all along. But in reality, being in a relationship can put all your romantic plans awry. To put this in context, your boyfriend has just joined a new job, while your girlfriend can’t get a vacation at work. The truth is being spontaneous and travelling is very hard when you’re in a relationship. Now, that you’re still single, preparing for a solo trip all the places you wanted to visit.

3. Social Time with Friends

Remember that old friend whom you loved to hang out and share a drink. Well, you won’t be seeing him anymore now that he or she’s in a relationship. You’ll be lucky if you can see him or her couple of time in a month or two. The reasons that couples have to stop meeting their friends now and then is that the person has to cater, in most cases, to certain social needs of their romantic partner. What’s more disheartening is that as the couples reach their late 30s or 40s, they see their friends even less. The benefits of being single are that you keep hanging out with friends that match the various parts of your personality, while if you’re in a relationship, you’ll be habituated with people that match some certain aspects of your personality.

4. Your Lust Is Alive

No doubt, being in a relationship has a bunch of benefits, but one part most couples lose in a long-term relationship is the loss of lust. When two people are in a relationship for some time, may have reported that the sparks have dissipated over time, requiring couples to work on their relationships to keep the excitement and intimacy flowing again. If you are a single, you don’t have to worry about the excitement when you go out, because it’s still flowing!

Overall, all single men and women, do your best to cherish your relationship-free life. Eventually, you guys won’t be single forever, most of you will find yourselves in relationships, and when that moment arrives, you’ll be more committed and responsible than even than your past single life.


4 New Dating Rules Everyone Should Follow – Well Sort Of!

We all tend to be idealistic sometimes, but it would be great if there were a new set of absolute dating rules that everyone should adhere to – sort of. There are always new rules for traffic, driving, sport, so why dating should be left out? The dating experience would be more enjoyable to everyone if they followed some general guideless, particularly kindness.

So, here are the proposed four new rules of dating:

#1 When You Speak Be Impeccable

This quality itself will tremendously transform the way we date with someone. If you find someone who is truthful and honest about what they say and do, and mindful about, it’s very attractive. Also if people spoke honestly and thoughtfully, and realize that their words can have consequences, doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad, very few relationships would have broken up.

#2 Don’t Make Anything Personal

This one is crucial. Rejection is a part of the dating process, and the less importance we pay to rejection while dating, and not taking it personally. It will be a real blessing. If we like someone, go on a date, and the next day, when we hear he or she doesn’t want to see you again, it has absolutely nothing to do with you. There is nothing wrong with your date and yourself either. The date didn’t click because there wasn’t any real chemistry between the two of you. Period. So, get over it, move on, and take the whole thing as a learning experience that can come in handy for your next date. And please don’t punish yourself up for it. Instead, be kind to yourself and love yourself.

#3 Don’t Make Any Assumptions

We all make presumptions whether it’s right or wrong. We do this while we are dating too. Most men and women while looking for someone to date always make assumptions about a person’s behaviors, actions or personality, without even knowing them. And, in most cases, they’re wrong. What’s more frustrating is that they don’t learn from it, and keeps on repeating this unwanted habit over and over again. So, what’s the best thing you should do? Try not to sit around and waste your time and mental effort of speculating of what he or she meant when they said something or why did she say that, or why he or she hasn’t called or texted. Invest your time and energy on something more productive, like spending quality time with close friends and family.

#4 Always Do Your Best

This one is really encouraging. Be the best of yourself every moment and every day. Always striving to do your best will make you more hopeful and drive you sorrows and regrets away. You’ll enjoy your life better and be happier if you be honorable and act accordingly.

Relationships should be all about bringing the best within us. Being honest, committed, and respectful to each other is the bedrock of any relationship to last and thrive in the long-term. Following these new guidelines will help to prepare yourself so that you can meet someone who values to be in a long-term relationship.


3 Tips On Meeting And Dating People In A New City

As more and more jobs are becoming home-based, a lot of folks are finding it hard to meet prospective dates at work. If you've moved to a new area, it’s highly likely that you’ve to work from home or work in a small office, or that most men and women in your workplace are married. You’ll find it hard to find people with the relationship status single, no doubt.

If you’re new in the city, the first thing you’ve to do is to establish connections. Don’t focus on finding a date at the moment when you’re in a new place, but it will help if you start making new friends. The underlying benefit here is that your new friends will invite you to join their social circles, where you can meet new people and in the process find someone new to date. So, how can you do it? What if you don’t have the necessary energy or interest in putting yourself in the dating scene, and be uncomfortable meeting and getting to know new people, or start dating one of them?

The simple solution is you have to suck it up and deal with it. Think of your situation like a professional networking event. You don’t like to meet people, but you do it anyways because, at the end of the day, you’ll find someone who is looking for you.

Here are three on meeting and dating people in a new city:

1. Meet people who live close to you

This may sound annoying, scary and downright creepy to some of you, but nonetheless useful. If you’re staying in a house or an apartment, your first mission should be to introduce yourself to your neighbors and get familiar with them. A good way of doing that you can pay them a visit with some edible treat. If you cook or bake, then prepare a tasty Italian pasta or bake some delicious cupcakes, and drop them in person. If you think cooking or baking is too hard for you, then buy a couple of bottles of the best wine, and have a friendly conversation with your neighbors over a few glasses of wine.

2. Carefully study the social scene at the gyms

I know the gym isn’t like the restaurant or a bar, where people get to see other or be noticed by other people. But, in reality, the gym is the place where a large group meets up in one space, just like a bar or a restaurant. They socialize and start forming relationships. If you’re looking forward to meeting new people, we suggest not to go the nearest or the cheapest one. Instead, check out several gyms in your locality and see which type of people frequent these places and get together.

3. Try Online Dating As An Option

People have so little free time to socialize and meet new people that online dating will only continue to grow in popularity. Online dating is simply a great place where you can get to meet new people with related ease.

It’s hard to get adjusted to a new city or town, and even harder to meet and date new people. But by following these tips, you’ll find it easier to meet people you might be interested to date.


5 Things To Look In A Partner If You’re An Anxious Person

Dating a good person will help become the person you wanted to be. A loving partner can reveal the best and the beautiful nature in you. If you’re an anxious person and looking for someone to have a lasting relationship, but don’t know what to look for in a person, below are five traits you need to consider. However, let me remind you this just a rough guideline, nothing absolute.

1. Secure and mature. These people are capable of being emotionally close, are comfortable with themselves, and they have personal interests. Such people also want to have their personal goals and interests. The live their lives in an open and emotionally connected way. This empowers them to acknowledge their mistakes and limitations and their partners as well and is ready to forgive them.

2. A good communicator. People who are good at sharing and listening make good partners. It helps them to develop and maintain close relationships. They’re also good at solving disagreements and problems. They’re also great at identifying and managing their emotions, which is important if you want to connect to a person and have an intimate and emotional relationship.

3. Appreciative behavior. Only falling in love doesn’t always result in a long-term relationship. Your relationship will only last, if your partner respects and values you, and express his or her feelings about you in some way. Your partner must show an interest to know you better and explore your personal interests and goals.

4. The right fit. Part of being in a relationship is enjoying spending time together. And it can only be worthwhile if the two of you share some common interests or activities that you can enjoy doing together. It can be anything like reading, watching romantic flicks, cooking or even having engaging and deep conversations. Sharing and respecting each other values and personal interests in also necessary for a committed, long-term relationship. The more of those values play in your daily life, the more valuable it becomes to share it with your partner. For example, if one partner wants to have kids and the partner totally opposes, then it’s a disaster. Or, if one partner is determined to have a relaxed or nomadic career or lifestyle – like a traveling reporter or an artist – the relationship will only see a happy ending if the other person is supportive of his or her’s partners choice.

5. Mature and ready to be in a relationship. You partner should be determined to make his or her relationship a priority. It means dedicating time and attention to it when you’re physically together and far way. It also includes sex and emotional intimacy as a vital aspect of an intimate relationship that compliments each other. Lastly, a potentially good partner will believe that both people are responsible for each other’s happiness.

Don’t pass a date which is your opinion has a nice but boring personality. Most people when they’re nervous often, rush things and equate their anxiety with being in love. So, it’s highly possible that the “nice but boring” person might actually be the right person for you, even though they don’t “excite” you in the first date.


Matthew McConaughey Tells Everything About His Workout Routine

Matthew McConaughey doesn't need too much presentation because everyone knows how a good actor he is. But he is also appreciated for his physique. He even received the title of the sexiest man in 2005 from the People's magazine. So there is no doubt that he managed to impress everyone with his sculptured abs and fit physique. Actually, Matthew has always had a fitness routine because he always tried to take care of the way he looked. This is why he included in his schedule, the regular Cardio routine that involves, believe it or not, five-mile beach run.

When he trained for the role he received in Magic Mike, Matthew's trainers recommended him a workout routine that included two circuit-training sessions, 6 days a week. But McCounaughey didn't have a problem with it because he was already in a good shape. So it didn't seem to be an effort for him. In addition, he is using Matthew McConaughey Supplements that keep him energetic and help him burn fat whenever he needs to do it in a very short period.

“I have always taken care of the way I was looking and this seems to bring many roles that I am proud of. My purpose when working out is not to focus on building bulk but to get my body in a good shape. I concentrate on putting on lean muscles. I listen carefully to what my trainers recommend me and I also count on an amazing combination of supplements that help me stay energetic and burn fat.”

MATTHEW MCCONAUGHEY WORKOUT ROUTINE:

  • Set 1

Decline Dumbbell Fly – 2 sets x 8 reps, no rest

Incline Bench Press – 2 sets x 8 reps, 1 min rest

  • Set 2

Weighted Swiss Ball Crunch – 2 sets x 8 reps, 1 min rest

Crossover Chin-up – 2 sets x 10 reps, 1 min rest

Elliptical Trainer – 2 minutes

  • Set 3

Bench Dip – 2 sets x 8 reps, no rest

Overhead Rope Tricep Extension – 2 sets x 8 reps, 1 min rest

  • Set 4

Side Lunge – 2 sets x 8 reps, 1 min rest

Medicine Ball Slam – 2 sets x10 reps, 1 min rest

Jump Rope – 2 sets, for 1 min

  • Set 5

Barbell Jump Squat – 2 sets x 8 reps, no rest

Swiss Ball Dumbbell Military Press – 2 sets x 8 reps, 1 min rest

  • Set 6

Medicine Ball Squat to Raise – 2 sets x10 reps, 1 min rest

Stationary Bicycling – 2 minutes, no rest

Stair Stepper – 5 minutes, 1 rest