Category Archives: Get A Girlfriend

What to Say to a Girl for the First Time

A lot of guys stress about what to say when approaching a girl for the first time. Really, it really doesn’t matter what you say. Trying to come up with some clever pickup line or witty thing to say will probably just make you sound like you are reading from a script, and leave you unprepared for whatever her response will be. What is important is knowing what NOT to say.   And, after this initial approach, it is all about knowing how to respond to her replies in a way which builds ups attraction.

The Rule of Social Relevance

In our post about how to meet women, I wrote a lot about a major problem guys have when approaching women: they come off as creepy. This is because most guys aren’t aware of the rule of “social relevance.” This basically just means you’ve got to be aware of your situation and make conversation which is relevant to the place.

What To Say To A Girl

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Where to Meet Women – Know the Right Places

If you are having trouble meeting women, it probably has to do with the fact that you are looking in all the wrong places.   Here, we won’t just give you ideas for specific places where you can meet women, but tell you why they are great places and tell you how to use them to your fullest advantage.

Bars and Clubs: The Wrong Place

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Bars and clubs seem like the logical place to meet women. In fact, a lot of women actually go to these places to meet men (be it for relationships or casual hookups). But, unless you are incredibly good-looking or really good at flirting (or both), then you probably aren’t going to have any luck.

You know those Animal Planet documentaries which show the males doing things like displaying their plumage, knocking their antlers together, or puffing up really big in order to get the attention of the females? Well, that basically sums up the atmosphere in a bar or club.

Women in bars know what you want – and this puts them in a position to make you work for it. Plus, there are almost always going to be more men on the prowl than women – which puts women in an even bigger position of power.

It isn’t impossible to meet women in bars and clubs, you’ve just got to be really good at the art of pickup (read our article on how to pick up girls). Aside from the pickup tricks, you will also have to be damn good at bantering (download our free guide on how to flirt with girls).

Even if you succeed in picking up a girl in a bar or club, it probably isn’t going to go anywhere (other than an awkward first date or maybe a one-night stand). This is because it is really hard to get to know a girl in a bar or club. The chances that you and the girl actually have something in common is pretty slim. So, if you want to meet women for something other than casual sex, I’d suggest you start looking in one of the following places.

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How to Meet Women – Tips & Tricks

First off, I want to clarify that this guide is about how to meet women. By meeting women, I mean learning how to approach women in a way which allows you to build up a rapport with them and engage in meaningful exchanges of communication. If that sounds like rubbish to you and your sole goal is to hookup with a girl, that is fine – but then read our guide on how to pick up girls instead.

How to Meet Women

Why would you want to meet women if it isn’t going to (immediately) lead to sex or relationships? Well, for starters, not every woman you meet is going to be compatible with you. But, by meeting as many women as possible, you are increasing your odds of finding someone who is. Plus, meeting women (even if it doesn’t go anywhere) helps you improve your social skills, build confidence, and gain insight into the female mind. Oh, and all of those new female friends you get will certainly have single lady friends they can introduce you to…

The Secret to Meeting Women…

Meeting women might seem like it requires some complex strategies and carefully-chosen pickup lines. In truth, it is all just a matter of

  1. Getting the timing is right
  2. Making sure you aren’t coming across as “creepy”
  3. Being socially relevant
  4. Exiting at the right moment

Let’s break this down a bit.

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Magnetic Messaging Review – Updated 2014

Whether you like it or not, text messaging has completely changed the way we date. Phone calls are becoming increasingly rare and men are expected to charm women into dating them with witty, cute, or decisive texts. Used the wrong way, text messaging can make you seem desperate, creepy, or flat-out boring. But, when used the right way, texting won’t just help you get a date with a girl, but will make the girl dripping wet in anticipation of your date.

Given the importance of texting in the dating game, it is fantastic that there is finally a book out on the topic. “Patented” Pick Up Artists Bobby Rio and Rob Judge spent two years researching the text game. The result is their landmark eBook Magnetic Messaging. The book guides you through the principles of the text game and lays out the “Key-Lock Sequence” – a tested system which allows you to captivate any woman with just three simple texts.

What is Magnetic Messaging?

Magnetic Messaging Review - Updated 2014

Magnetic Messaging is an e-guide which covers everything you need to know about using text messages to get a girl and keep her interested. Unlike other text messaging guides which give you a script to follow, Magnetic Messaging gives you a system called the “Key-Lock sequence” which you can use to “unlock the phone and text game”. The guide defines each step of the sequence, supplies plenty of examples and templates, and explains when and how much to use each. With this knowledge, you will never lose another girl because of bad follow-ups.Magnetic Messaging Review

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How to Pick Up Girls – Get Her Wanting You

The term “pickup” has been around since WWII, a time when guys were finally starting to get lucky because girls felt bad for them going off to battle. It wasn’t until the 1970s though that the term pickup was popularized by Eric Weber’s ground-breaking book How to Pick Up Girls. In the book, he laid out the foundation for what was about to change the lives of many ugly, boring, and “ordinary” guys. Since Weber’s original book, a lot of other pickup artists have advanced his theories and picking up girls has become a “game” which no woman can win – or resist playing.

How to Pick Up Girls

Generally, the goal of a pickup is to get sex. But, a pickup can also refer to anything else you want to get from a girl – like her number, a date, or even to become her boyfriend.   Picking up girls is considered an art, and some men spend years perfecting their craft. Since you probably don’t want to wait years to get a hot girl, here we will lay down the basic principles of how to pick up girls. Then you can then hone your technique by trial and error, or continue learning with some of our resources, like the PIOP free guide How to Flirt with Women which you can download here. Continue reading


Tao of Badass Review – Updated 2016

What is Tao of Badass?

You may be saying, “What in the world is Tao of Badass?”

Tao of Badass Review

The Ultimate Solution To All Your Dating Problems

In this review we’ll break it down for you. We’ll tell you about this program, designed by Joshua Pellicer, and we’ll provide you with the information to decide whether or not Tao of Badass is the key to transforming your relationships with women–and your entire life.

First, ask yourself these two simple questions:

Are you the kind of guy who doesn’t seem to have that magic charm with women?

Do you find yourself constantly searching for the right girl, only to be rejected or end up with the wrong ones?

Tao of Badass is the quintessential guide to becoming a more confident man–the kind of man who can not only attract women but also build fulfilling relationships.

Yes, this guide is about meeting women and being more confident in social situations, but it offers a unique approach in that it also focuses on creating a real relationship with the right girl.

The key premise of Tao of Badass is that attracting women is something to be learned. Frequently, men see it as something that comes naturally, as a skill you’re either born with or not, but Joshua Pellicer disproves this fallacy based on extensive research as well as personal experience.Tao of Badass Review

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Why Can’t I Get A Girlfriend? You Only Need To Learn One Thing!

Why Can’t I Get A Girlfriend? You Only Need To Learn One Thing!

Why can’t I get a girlfriend? That is the million dollar question.

>>Want to learn the one trick you need to get a girlfriend? Watch this video…

Most guys want to establish a meaningful relationship with a girl, but you’ll have to put in a special effort for this to happen.

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How To Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend – The Tips!

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It doesn’t matter how old you are, what you look like or what you do, I want to help you get a girlfriend and find the love and happiness you’ve been looking for.

Before I give you any tips or advice how to get a girlfriend, we need to do some work on your own mind and body first.

It’s highly likely that you have some preconceptions about how to ask girls to be your girlfriend, the rules of courtship, and what you need to do to get a girlfriend.

Your ideas about how to get a girlfriend are probably wrong. And if you are using them as excuses as to why you are still single, then you will never get what you really need to attract and keep a girlfriend.

So let’s start by dispelling a few myths…

Myth 1 – You need to be rich or wealthy

You don’t need to have a high paying job, money in the bank, a big house or a flashy car to be able to get a girlfriend.

This is probably the biggest myth that many single and frustrated guys believe, and it’s just not true.

You can be totally broke and working two jobs in order to make ends meet and still get a beautiful and amazing girlfriend.

Myth 2 – You Need To Be Anyone But Yourself

Another popular myth that many guys believe when trying to get a girlfriend is that you need to be like someone else. That you need to behave like someone else, or speak like someone else.

When it comes to relationships and love, you want to find someone who likes you for who you are.

This means that you shouldn’t try to be anyone else, you should just be yourself! But this does NOT mean you should show up to a date unshaved, smelly, and wearing sweats. You’ve got to be the best version of yourself.

In the Play It On Point manual, we talk about some specific areas you can work on to become a better, more attractive – but while still ultimately being true to yourself.

There is a girl out there right now who would love to be your girlfriend for exactly the guy that you are.

Myth 3 – You need to be good-looking or have the body of a God

Have you ever noticed a beautiful girl who’s with a totally nerdy guy?

For a girl or a woman, looks are really not an important factor when it comes to relationships.

You’ll learn that you can get a gorgeous girlfriend even if you’re not Hollywood good looking or aren’t in perfect shape. You can even get a girlfriend if you are downright ugly!
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Tips On How To Ask A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend

Tip #1 – Get Talking

If you want to ask a girl to be your girlfriend, you need to be talking to girls on a regular basis so you learn to feel comfortable and at ease when you’re talking to the girl. We talk about this in our post about how to meet women.

This is simple logic but you’ll be amazed at how many times I hear guys complain about not having a girlfriend but, when asked how many girls they’ve spoken to in the last month, they say none.

I suggest joining a club, doing some volunteer work, taking a class, or any of the other ideas in our post about where to meet women. Grow some balls and make a point of talking to the women in a purely friendly way.

You need to put yourself out there.

Tip #2 – Never Assume It is Exclusive

You’ve been dating a girl for a while. You talk every day, you see each other all the time, and you seem to have a genuine connection. Even if you are acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, NEVER assume it is exclusive!

Chances are she might still be hooking up with her ex on the side, or flirting with guys at bars in hopes of finding someone better. You will just end up looking (and feeling) like an ass when “girlfriend” slips out, and she responds by looking dumbstruck.

Tip #3 – Date Her First

We aren’t in the Victorian era anymore where you’ve got to be practically engaged to a girl before you can go out with her. Even if you are fantasizing about a girl becoming your girl, don’t come out and ask her to be your exclusive girlfriend until you’ve dated her a few times.

Once you are sure you two are compatible and she is sending you signals that she wants something exclusive with you, then you can pop the question. Remember, there are phases to dating and you’ve got to move through them carefully if you are going to build a real relationship.

Tip #4 – Look for Signals

Okay, this one can be a bit tricky because girls are notorious for sending out mixed signals. If you haven’t started dating yet, she might give the impression that she’s not looking for a relationship – but that doesn’t mean she’s not open to the idea. More often the case is that she just hasn’t found the right person yet to be in a relationship with.

If a girl gives the impression she doesn’t want a boyfriend, it doesn’t mean that there is no chance of dating her. Brush up on ways to approach women, work on your confidence and image, and come up with some fun date ideas which are so good she can’t refuse.

After a few dates, look for signals that she is interested in being exclusive with you. Again, girls often send some really confusing mixed signals, but here are some telltale signs she is into you.

  • She says things like “I love spending time with you”
  • She tells you details of where she’s been and with whom
  • She has introduced you to her friends or family
  • She holds your hand or shows affection in public
  • She cancels plans to be with you
  • She assumes you two have plans for the weekend

Remember, you’ve got to ease into it. Women get scared away by men who are clingy. So don’t pop the question – or even mention you want her to be your girlfriend – until you’ve gotten some clear signals.

Tip #5 – Relax and Pop the Question

This isn’t a marriage proposal, so relax already!

First off, don’t just stumble up to her and ask if she will be your girlfriend. You need to be relaxed first and in a private, comfortable situation.

Some guys are really good at coming right out and asking, “Do you want to be my girlfriend.” In most cases though, it comes as a DTR talk – defining the relationship.

When asking a girl to be your girlfriend, or even when having the DTR talk, you’ve got to remember that relationships today aren’t so straightforward. She might hear “girlfriend” and immediately start picking out the wedding colors and baby names. He might hear “girlfriend” and think “I wonder if she’s cool with me hooking up with chicks on the side…”

Since there are so many types of relationships out there, make sure you know exactly what you want before you ask her to be your girlfriend. If she springs the DTR talk on you before you are ready, then just be honest about how you feel.

The Art of Asking Her Out

The true art of asking a girl to be your girlfriend involves a psychological technique called propinquity.

You will learn how to use related techniques such as this in our free manual. Be sure to check it out.

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