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The Most Important and Fundamental Dating Advice for Guys

It's not uncommon these days to find a lot of men looking for special techniques and ways to attract the women that they're interested in, getting sucked in by false promises claiming to expound “the ultimate secrets regarding love advice for men.” Most of these guys have it wrong from the get-go however, and instead of focusing on special tactics and relying on some “magical” words, they should be concerning themselves more with their own personal qualities, coupled with a solid understanding of what women often look for in a man. The real reason why you can't get a girlfriend is primarily a matter of attitude. Keeping things simple and “rudimentary” will allow you to approach women with ease and confidence, and can help you to score that first date! It all comes down to putting yourself in an advantageous position where a woman will naturally be interested in knowing more about, and spending more time with you in the process. This article aims to give you a succinct run down of the above mentioned rudimentary concepts and personal qualities, and serves as a general guide to dating advice for guys.

Be a Leader

Presenting yourself as a leader, or a “hunter” is considered by many women to be attractive. In general, women don't like indecisiveness in a man, as they're often looking for security and direction. They'll often look for a man that knows what he wants in life, and is working towards his goals. This doesn't mean you should be a jerk or act all “macho” and put on a fake show – this can actually be a big turn off to many women. A great way to go about applying this tip is to plan a little bit in advance. This is especially the case for dates; Knowing where you're going, what you're doing, and how you're going to do it will naturally keep your confidence levels up.

What Makes You Interesting?

Being able to “separate yourself from the herd” so to speak is very important. What can you offer a potential partner that other men out there can't? This kind of goes with the above tip, and goes along with being confident and knowing what you want in life. Women will tend to notice someone that is unique or pursuing special interests in their lives over those that aren't really doing much at all in the first place.

Work On Your Overall Social Skills

This is a pretty big one. Most dating advice for guys has to do with this key point. Being able to strike up interesting conversation with a girl in a confident manner is a surefire way to get them interested. Even if you're not the most motivated, “going places”, most interesting guy in the world, solid social skills can still make dating a beautiful woman possible. You don't necessarily have to have a “silver tongue” but you should be capable of maneuvering comfortably through conversations and able to quickly pick up on social cues.

Women Like Manners

Remember what we said before about not being a jerk? If you really want to impress a girl, be polite and apply some etiquette. Don't be afraid to compliment her looks; Women love that kind of thing, so long as you're not going overboard with it. Understand where the line is in your relationship. Simple things like opening doors for her, or helping her out of the car can go a long way. Don't be too crazy about it though, you don't want to freak them out. Being overly nice can come off as a little strange and might make things seem too serious.

First Impressions are Important

You'll see this point brought up in any real guide to dating advice for guys. Everyone will be a little nervous on their first date with someone; This is perfectly natural. You should make the effort to display a little self-confidence however, as most women will find it very attractive. Don't be afraid to lead the way on your dates, and take some charge. Being able to confidently and fluidly converse with a woman is very important. Keep in mind though that you shouldn't be overly focused on yourself. When talking to a girl, you want to meet on common grounds from a conversational point of view. Talk about things that can be interesting for both of you. The best dating questions to ask a girl are the ones that allow them an opportunity to show themselves to you, and vice versa. You're on a date to get to know each other after all, right?

You may have heard a lot of the above points before, or at least variations on them, yet it's astounding how many simply don't put them into to practice. Everyone is always looking for some magical shortcut to everything in life – it doesn't require anything like that. The best dating advice for guys you'll ever find is often the simplest, and entails being honest with yourself and in your approach. Sure, you may have to work on some areas, like developing social skills for instance, but that can come with practice. The same principle goes for the actual dating process; In the beginning, keep it simple – drinks are an okay place to start, just show a little effort on your part by finding something better than just the local watering hole. Take the time to come up with some fun things to do on a date with the girl you're interested in. It's a good idea to avoid any relationship advice for guys that promise things that seem too good to be true, or just downright silly.

With all of these helpful tips now in your arsenal, you should be much more capable of confidently approaching women and positioning yourself properly to capture and hold their interest. From there, you can see where things go. Don't overthink the entire process; Getting to know someone new and going on dates should be fun, so don't make it more than it needs to be. There are no magical shortcuts for getting women to like you, but there are certainly areas you can focus on that will greatly increase your odds of relational success.


Everything You Need to Know about Polish Dating

For a long time, Russian dating has been incredibly popular, with some men going so far as to spend vast amounts of money to import their own Russian brides. While Russian women certainly are beautiful, feminine, and nurturing, the Russian dating scene is overrun by scam artists who are really good at taking lonely men for their last dollar. And the Russian women who aren’t scam artists can be cold and materialistic (or straight-up gold diggers). It didn’t take long before men started looking elsewhere in Eastern Europe for beautiful women. As they did, the trend has shifted to Polish dating. Continue reading


Relationship Tips for Men

Does this sound familiar? You meet a great girl, you date for a while, and you think things are going great in your relationship. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, she breaks it off. What went wrong? And, more importantly, how can you prevent it from happening again?

With these relationship tips, you can keep your relationship going strong for the both of you.

Keep It Hot in the Bedroom

Let’s face it. Sex is the most important part of a relationship. Without it, you two are just good friends. So, if she starts losing her interest in sex, then she is probably going to lose her interest in you.

Keeping sex hot and steamy is something all couples have a challenge with. Over time, you get to know what each other like and you get into a pattern of doing the same thing.   Since you are probably also on a routine for seeing each other too, this just adds to the monotony — like knowing that you will always have sex on Tuesday nights, and that it will start with kissing on the couch, lead to missionary in the bedroom, and end in doggy position.   No matter how much fun this was at the beginning, it WILL get boring.

Unfortunately for men, sex gets boring for women a lot faster. So, men need to be really aware of how their partners are feeling.  Men notoriously aren’t good at picking up on women’s feelings, which is why that inevitable breakup always seems to be “out of the blue.”

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Long Distance Relationship Advice

Relationships are hard work even when you two live close to each other. Add a few thousand miles into the mix and “hard work” doesn’t even begin to sum up what it takes to survive the relationship. That’s right: survive. Long distance relationships are often talked about as exercises of survival because they are not for the faint of heart. You’ve got to be prepared to throw all your old notions of relationship to the wind, overcome your jealousy, and then there is that issue of sex.

Doesn’t sound like a long distance relationship is worth the trouble? It might not be. But, if you really think your relationship is something special, follow this advice for surviving a long distance relationship.

Decide Whether It is Worth It

Before you jump into a long distance relationship, ask yourself whether it is really worth it. There are two basic types of relationships that can end up with the distance factor. Depending on the type of relationship, you will have different issues to consider when deciding whether it is worth pursuing.

1. The Long Distance Attraction

This type of long distance relationship is when you fall for someone who lives far away. Maybe you two met on a cruise vacation. Maybe you met when he was in town on a work trip. Maybe you two met at a Star Wars convention and were smitten by your equal levels of nerdiness…

These attractions usually just end up being flings and nothing more. After all, you probably won’t be willing to put in all the work required of a long distance relationship for someone you just met.

But let’s say that this person is someone truly special and you don’t think that you will ever meet someone as great. If you want to pursue the relationship, then you better be REALLY flexible in your life right now. You better have the financial resources and time to go out and visit. And, assuming that everything goes well, you better be willing to drop everything (friends, family, career, your home…) to move out and be with that person.

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What to Say to a Girl for the First Time

A lot of guys stress about what to say when approaching a girl for the first time. Really, it really doesn’t matter what you say. Trying to come up with some clever pickup line or witty thing to say will probably just make you sound like you are reading from a script, and leave you unprepared for whatever her response will be. What is important is knowing what NOT to say.   And, after this initial approach, it is all about knowing how to respond to her replies in a way which builds ups attraction.

The Rule of Social Relevance

In our post about how to meet women, I wrote a lot about a major problem guys have when approaching women: they come off as creepy. This is because most guys aren’t aware of the rule of “social relevance.” This basically just means you’ve got to be aware of your situation and make conversation which is relevant to the place.

What To Say To A Girl

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Where to Meet Women – Know the Right Places

If you are having trouble meeting women, it probably has to do with the fact that you are looking in all the wrong places.   Here, we won’t just give you ideas for specific places where you can meet women, but tell you why they are great places and tell you how to use them to your fullest advantage.

Bars and Clubs: The Wrong Place

Where To Meet Women

Bars and clubs seem like the logical place to meet women. In fact, a lot of women actually go to these places to meet men (be it for relationships or casual hookups). But, unless you are incredibly good-looking or really good at flirting (or both), then you probably aren’t going to have any luck.

You know those Animal Planet documentaries which show the males doing things like displaying their plumage, knocking their antlers together, or puffing up really big in order to get the attention of the females? Well, that basically sums up the atmosphere in a bar or club.

Women in bars know what you want – and this puts them in a position to make you work for it. Plus, there are almost always going to be more men on the prowl than women – which puts women in an even bigger position of power.

It isn’t impossible to meet women in bars and clubs, you’ve just got to be really good at the art of pickup (read our article on how to pick up girls). Aside from the pickup tricks, you will also have to be damn good at bantering (download our free guide on how to flirt with girls).

Even if you succeed in picking up a girl in a bar or club, it probably isn’t going to go anywhere (other than an awkward first date or maybe a one-night stand). This is because it is really hard to get to know a girl in a bar or club. The chances that you and the girl actually have something in common is pretty slim. So, if you want to meet women for something other than casual sex, I’d suggest you start looking in one of the following places.

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How to Meet Women – Tips & Tricks

First off, I want to clarify that this guide is about how to meet women. By meeting women, I mean learning how to approach women in a way which allows you to build up a rapport with them and engage in meaningful exchanges of communication. If that sounds like rubbish to you and your sole goal is to hookup with a girl, that is fine – but then read our guide on how to pick up girls instead.

How to Meet Women

Why would you want to meet women if it isn’t going to (immediately) lead to sex or relationships? Well, for starters, not every woman you meet is going to be compatible with you. But, by meeting as many women as possible, you are increasing your odds of finding someone who is. Plus, meeting women (even if it doesn’t go anywhere) helps you improve your social skills, build confidence, and gain insight into the female mind. Oh, and all of those new female friends you get will certainly have single lady friends they can introduce you to…

The Secret to Meeting Women…

Meeting women might seem like it requires some complex strategies and carefully-chosen pickup lines. In truth, it is all just a matter of

  1. Getting the timing is right
  2. Making sure you aren’t coming across as “creepy”
  3. Being socially relevant
  4. Exiting at the right moment

Let’s break this down a bit.

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Magnetic Messaging Review – Updated 2014

Whether you like it or not, text messaging has completely changed the way we date. Phone calls are becoming increasingly rare and men are expected to charm women into dating them with witty, cute, or decisive texts. Used the wrong way, text messaging can make you seem desperate, creepy, or flat-out boring. But, when used the right way, texting won’t just help you get a date with a girl, but will make the girl dripping wet in anticipation of your date.

Given the importance of texting in the dating game, it is fantastic that there is finally a book out on the topic. “Patented” Pick Up Artists Bobby Rio and Rob Judge spent two years researching the text game. The result is their landmark eBook Magnetic Messaging. The book guides you through the principles of the text game and lays out the “Key-Lock Sequence” – a tested system which allows you to captivate any woman with just three simple texts.

What is Magnetic Messaging?

Magnetic Messaging Review - Updated 2014

Magnetic Messaging is an e-guide which covers everything you need to know about using text messages to get a girl and keep her interested. Unlike other text messaging guides which give you a script to follow, Magnetic Messaging gives you a system called the “Key-Lock sequence” which you can use to “unlock the phone and text game”. The guide defines each step of the sequence, supplies plenty of examples and templates, and explains when and how much to use each. With this knowledge, you will never lose another girl because of bad follow-ups.Magnetic Messaging Review

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