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Succeed In Dating a Beautiful Woman with These Creative First Date Ideas

Dating a beautiful womanThe key to dating a beautiful woman and winning her over is being a little creative in the planning process. Most men don't go beyond the typical “dinner and a movie” approach to the first date, and while that can be fun and all, if you really want to woo the girl you like, show her something new! You want to separate yourself from all the other guys out there. This list will help you consider some less-common dating ideas that are guaranteed to be a blast for you and your date and will guarantee success in dating a beautiful woman.

The first thing that needs to be considered before planning the actual date itself, is that conversation is key. Most love advice for men will mention this point, and everyone understands this to some degree – the whole point of a date is to have fun and get to know the other person that you're with. That being said, you don't want to be under a constant pressure to strike up conversation. Good dates are ones where fun and conversation flow naturally. Women in particular like this type of thing, because while you may not realize it, they're often very self-conscious about having to talk about themselves, and have the attention constantly on them. Take a little time to think up some good conversational points that you can use during the date. Conversation is everything, and often times, the best dating questions you can ask on a first date are ones that not only show her that you're interested, but also leave the overall “vibe” very casual and friendly. It can be a hard balance to strike!

Go to an Aquarium!

It may seem a little silly, like something that children do on field trips; Aquariums are a great way to appreciate and expose your date to some natural beauty. This type of dating atmosphere is very casual and laid back, it gives you some conversational topics that you can fall back on, like talking about the various fish and organisms found at the aquarium. This doesn't mean you shouldn't be making the effort to communicate on a more personal level, but at least you can approach things in a more convenient manner, conversationally speaking.

Consider going Hiking!

If your date is willing to get a little exercise and the weather forecast permits, hiking is an excellent first date idea. Obviously you need to be aware of the type of girl your date is. If they seem like the kind of person that's into outdoors stuff, then this is an excellent way to hit things off.

Going to the theater.

Not the movie theater that is, but the actual “Theater.” It's very likely that your date rarely, if ever goes to the theater to see a show. This is a great way to introduce them to something new, and is a very classy alternative to seeing a movie. Most shows will have intermission periods where you and your date can converse; Going to the theater is a great idea if you're worried about your lack of conversational skills. While most relationship advice for guys focuses on the actual conversational aspects of dating and interacting with women, like how to flirt with a girl for instance, you have to keep the big picture in mind; Girls want to have fun!

Bowling!

This one is a classic. It's very casual and fun, and you two can enjoy a good drink and some food together while seeing who can score better. A little friendly competition can be the perfect thing to help break the ice for both participants. If she's comfortable, the entire date will be that much easier.

Check out a local art gallery.

Even if the woman you're taking on a date isn't one of those artsy fartsy type girls, you can still enjoy some nice artwork together at a gallery. At the very least, you two could joke about the goofy paintings and sculptures you find. You'll constantly be on the move, which helps to keep the tension low, as attention isn't fully fixated on one another. Just be sure to research the exhibit before you setup the date to make sure it will be somewhat interesting for both of you.

Is she into music?

Who isn't into music, right? Take her to a music show for your first date. Again, this accomplishes a lot of the same things that the previous ideas so – you're keeping things fun and casual, and letting the date itself do most of the heavy lifting. Obviously it depends what kind of music she's into. Certain types of music might not be as conducive for dating, like really heavy or excited genres. Bring up the idea to your date and see what they think.

Ice-Skating can prove to be a very exciting new experience.

Even if you two don't know how to ice-skate, that's all the more reason to give it a try. This is an excellent way to immediately establish a friendly bond with your date. Most ice-skating places will usually have other things going on as well like music and places to hang out and eat some food.

Introduce her to some new cuisine.

You may be starting to pickup on the common theme of these dating ideas by now. Sharing new experiences with someone is great for building a bond. By taking the dive with her into something new, you're showing your confidence and willingness to have fun and be daring at the same time. Try out some ethnic cuisine (avoid anything too crazy of course) that you think you'll both like. This is a big step up from just going to a typical restaurant and eating the same kinds of things you've always had.

Last but not least, a friendly tour of the area!

If none of the above ideas strike up any interest, consider just touring the local area. You'd be surprised how romantic and even exciting it can be to go on a little adventure with your date and exploring the area. Obviously this is a weather sensitive one, so don't plan on taking her out if the weather is questionable or downright poor. Perhaps look into finding some local festivals or exhibits that you can go to. Keep in mind the rules of casual dating; Provide a fun and relaxing time for the girl you're dating, and don't be overly serious. The great thing about touring around is that your options for food and hangout spots are pretty much endless. Successfully dating a beautiful woman and capturing her interest comes down to execution. The ultimate dating advice for guys is to be true to yourself in the process, and you'll naturally exude the confidence that women look for in a man.


What You Can Learn from SpeedDating

For some, dating just doesn’t come easy. They get reduced to a stuttering emotional mess in the presence of pretty women and just can’t seem to say or do the right thing. But the good news is that dating can be learned. The bad news is that learning dating skills takes time. This is why I love speedDating so much. Continue reading


How to Flirt with a Girl Over Text

Texting has become a basic part of our lives and how we communicate, and it has also become an integral part of dating. So, sorry to break it to you guys, if you don’t know how to flirt with a girl over text, your dating game is going to seriously suffer. The good news is that flirting over text can be learned. And, for all you shy guys, flirting with text is easier to learn than in-person dating skills like bantering. Continue reading


Relationship Tips for Men

Does this sound familiar? You meet a great girl, you date for a while, and you think things are going great in your relationship. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, she breaks it off. What went wrong? And, more importantly, how can you prevent it from happening again?

With these relationship tips, you can keep your relationship going strong for the both of you.

Keep It Hot in the Bedroom

Let’s face it. Sex is the most important part of a relationship. Without it, you two are just good friends. So, if she starts losing her interest in sex, then she is probably going to lose her interest in you.

Keeping sex hot and steamy is something all couples have a challenge with. Over time, you get to know what each other like and you get into a pattern of doing the same thing.   Since you are probably also on a routine for seeing each other too, this just adds to the monotony — like knowing that you will always have sex on Tuesday nights, and that it will start with kissing on the couch, lead to missionary in the bedroom, and end in doggy position.   No matter how much fun this was at the beginning, it WILL get boring.

Unfortunately for men, sex gets boring for women a lot faster. So, men need to be really aware of how their partners are feeling.  Men notoriously aren’t good at picking up on women’s feelings, which is why that inevitable breakup always seems to be “out of the blue.”

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What to Say to a Girl for the First Time

A lot of guys stress about what to say when approaching a girl for the first time. Really, it really doesn’t matter what you say. Trying to come up with some clever pickup line or witty thing to say will probably just make you sound like you are reading from a script, and leave you unprepared for whatever her response will be. What is important is knowing what NOT to say.   And, after this initial approach, it is all about knowing how to respond to her replies in a way which builds ups attraction.

The Rule of Social Relevance

In our post about how to meet women, I wrote a lot about a major problem guys have when approaching women: they come off as creepy. This is because most guys aren’t aware of the rule of “social relevance.” This basically just means you’ve got to be aware of your situation and make conversation which is relevant to the place.

What To Say To A Girl

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Where to Meet Women – Know the Right Places

If you are having trouble meeting women, it probably has to do with the fact that you are looking in all the wrong places.   Here, we won’t just give you ideas for specific places where you can meet women, but tell you why they are great places and tell you how to use them to your fullest advantage.

Bars and Clubs: The Wrong Place

Where To Meet Women

Bars and clubs seem like the logical place to meet women. In fact, a lot of women actually go to these places to meet men (be it for relationships or casual hookups). But, unless you are incredibly good-looking or really good at flirting (or both), then you probably aren’t going to have any luck.

You know those Animal Planet documentaries which show the males doing things like displaying their plumage, knocking their antlers together, or puffing up really big in order to get the attention of the females? Well, that basically sums up the atmosphere in a bar or club.

Women in bars know what you want – and this puts them in a position to make you work for it. Plus, there are almost always going to be more men on the prowl than women – which puts women in an even bigger position of power.

It isn’t impossible to meet women in bars and clubs, you’ve just got to be really good at the art of pickup (read our article on how to pick up girls). Aside from the pickup tricks, you will also have to be damn good at bantering (download our free guide on how to flirt with girls).

Even if you succeed in picking up a girl in a bar or club, it probably isn’t going to go anywhere (other than an awkward first date or maybe a one-night stand). This is because it is really hard to get to know a girl in a bar or club. The chances that you and the girl actually have something in common is pretty slim. So, if you want to meet women for something other than casual sex, I’d suggest you start looking in one of the following places.

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How To Flirt With Girls – 6 Dynamite Tips

Flirting with a girl without coming across as creepy can be a tough art to master. You need to say and do the right things but you can't take it too far. The truth is there are a a couple of simple techniques you can implement which will put you light years ahead of almost all the other guys on the planet.

Ever heard of propinquity? No? Well, I am about to change your life in a major way.

Propinquity is one of the main factors that lead up to attraction. Learn and understand the process and you will never have any problems getting girls to like you.

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