For some, dating just doesn’t come easy. They get reduced to a stuttering emotional mess in the presence of pretty women and just can’t seem to say or do the right thing. But the good news is that dating can be learned. The bad news is that learning dating skills takes time. This is why I love speedDating so much. Continue reading
Texting has become a basic part of our lives and how we communicate, and it has also become an integral part of dating. So, sorry to break it to you guys, if you don’t know how to flirt with a girl over text, your dating game is going to seriously suffer. The good news is that flirting over text can be learned. And, for all you shy guys, flirting with text is easier to learn than in-person dating skills like bantering. Continue reading
Does this sound familiar? You meet a great girl, you date for a while, and you think things are going great in your relationship. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, she breaks it off. What went wrong? And, more importantly, how can you prevent it from happening again?
With these relationship tips, you can keep your relationship going strong for the both of you.
Keep It Hot in the Bedroom
Let’s face it. Sex is the most important part of a relationship. Without it, you two are just good friends. So, if she starts losing her interest in sex, then she is probably going to lose her interest in you.
Keeping sex hot and steamy is something all couples have a challenge with. Over time, you get to know what each other like and you get into a pattern of doing the same thing. Since you are probably also on a routine for seeing each other too, this just adds to the monotony — like knowing that you will always have sex on Tuesday nights, and that it will start with kissing on the couch, lead to missionary in the bedroom, and end in doggy position. No matter how much fun this was at the beginning, it WILL get boring.
Unfortunately for men, sex gets boring for women a lot faster. So, men need to be really aware of how their partners are feeling. Men notoriously aren’t good at picking up on women’s feelings, which is why that inevitable breakup always seems to be “out of the blue.”
A lot of guys stress about what to say when approaching a girl for the first time. Really, it really doesn’t matter what you say. Trying to come up with some clever pickup line or witty thing to say will probably just make you sound like you are reading from a script, and leave you unprepared for whatever her response will be. What is important is knowing what NOT to say. And, after this initial approach, it is all about knowing how to respond to her replies in a way which builds ups attraction.
The Rule of Social Relevance
In our post about how to meet women, I wrote a lot about a major problem guys have when approaching women: they come off as creepy. This is because most guys aren’t aware of the rule of “social relevance.” This basically just means you’ve got to be aware of your situation and make conversation which is relevant to the place.
If you are having trouble meeting women, it probably has to do with the fact that you are looking in all the wrong places. Here, we won’t just give you ideas for specific places where you can meet women, but tell you why they are great places and tell you how to use them to your fullest advantage.
Bars and Clubs: The Wrong Place
Bars and clubs seem like the logical place to meet women. In fact, a lot of women actually go to these places to meet men (be it for relationships or casual hookups). But, unless you are incredibly good-looking or really good at flirting (or both), then you probably aren’t going to have any luck.
You know those Animal Planet documentaries which show the males doing things like displaying their plumage, knocking their antlers together, or puffing up really big in order to get the attention of the females? Well, that basically sums up the atmosphere in a bar or club.
Women in bars know what you want – and this puts them in a position to make you work for it. Plus, there are almost always going to be more men on the prowl than women – which puts women in an even bigger position of power.
It isn’t impossible to meet women in bars and clubs, you’ve just got to be really good at the art of pickup (read our article on how to pick up girls). Aside from the pickup tricks, you will also have to be damn good at bantering (download our free guide on how to flirt with girls).
Even if you succeed in picking up a girl in a bar or club, it probably isn’t going to go anywhere (other than an awkward first date or maybe a one-night stand). This is because it is really hard to get to know a girl in a bar or club. The chances that you and the girl actually have something in common is pretty slim. So, if you want to meet women for something other than casual sex, I’d suggest you start looking in one of the following places.
Flirting with a girl without coming across as creepy can be a tough art to master. You need to say and do the right things but you can't take it too far. The truth is there are a a couple of simple techniques you can implement which will put you light years ahead of almost all the other guys on the planet.
Ever heard of propinquity? No? Well, I am about to change your life in a major way.
Propinquity is one of the main factors that lead up to attraction. Learn and understand the process and you will never have any problems getting girls to like you.
How To Talk To Girls – The Best Techniques
Many guys are clueless when it comes to mastering how to talk to girls.
This topic comes up in many conversations when guys talk among themselves.
Every guy among your friends has a different take on girls and how to talk to them.