We all know the about the tagline that, “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” Well, that’s true to some extent. And who doesn’t like a good cook or a great homemaker? No doubt, a man will love and admire you for your talents and abilities, but it’s more than that if you want your man to fall in love with you, and develop a long-term relationship with you.
Remember Your “Weaknesses” Are Your Greatest Strengths When It Comes To Love
When you’re confident to show your boyfriend or husband all the “flaws” or “imperfections” you have, it’s at that moment he can actually open up to you and become more close to you. Why do you ask? You see as you’re showing your man your flaws, you’re demonstrating to him that you’re human. People are imperfect, and we all make mistakes. It intrigues him, and makes him admire you more, and makes him interested to know more about you. But, most importantly, it makes him feel safer and less vulnerable to show his flaws too. This is the moment where the real connection and emotional intimacy between two people start to happen, and where you’ll find a space to receive and store all the love you want from a man. Let’s talk about an example to put this in perspective.
Suppose you want to cook something nice for your partner, but you feel a little stressed given the fact that you have a horrible history of burning food. But, still, you want to cook to show how much you love and appreciate your spouse for all the good moments he brings in the relationship. Anyways, you cooked a turkey and got the table ready for dinner. And suddenly your boyfriend tells you that he smells something is burnt! You don’t want to believe and trying to defend your position. As your partner insists, and you eventually admit that you did screw up that turkey. If you acknowledge that you burned the turkey, it’s highly likely that your boyfriend will empathize with your sadness, remove your misery, and love and connect with you more.
Show A Man Your Soft Side And See The Love Pouring In
The above incidents are very common to come by in relationships, but it means little to a man. But, moments like these will make you realize that it’s only you can judge you, and it’s your responsibility to be a good partner. Remind yourself that being perfect won’t help to make a man fully attracted to you, but showing your imperfections will. If your boyfriend likes for you for all the perfections and flaws you’ve, he will encourage you to stand up to any ultimate test of any relationship. He will inspire and make you feel that you’re at your best when you’re with him.
So, the next time you’re on a date, don’t try too hard to conceal your imperfections from him. Allow yourself to be vulnerable when you’re with him and show him what you’re really feeling. Let him see that you aren’t all perfect. Showing your softer side of yourself is one of the courageous and strongest things you can do in a relationship.