Let’s be honest, plenty of guys are having problems in dating and building relationships with amazing women. When the conversation starts with the meeting, dating, and nurturing relationships with great women, most men say and do the same just like any other guy looking for a relationship. We get lost in the crowd. So, why is that? The thing is most guys will have little problem in finding great women that they like to get to know more about her. The big problem is there are tons of other guys who are competing with you to grab her attention.
So the million-dollar question is, what can you do to make you stand out from the crowd, and become the first guy to grab the attention of a great woman you like, and take things to the next level? Here are three ways to make it happen:
1. Don’t Send The Wrong Signals
One of the key reasons most guys fail to date the woman they’re interested is because they ruined their chances of having a date with her in the first place. Most men become nervous and think too much about their upcoming first date. Their minds play all sorts of games, and this compels them to say and do things that they should have never done. They start sending out all the wrong signals just like any other guy. One is that some guys have very low self-esteem, and they broadcast it to their dates with awkward speeches, weird cues, and nervous body language. All these are attraction-killing behaviors. Then some guys will be the “Obnoxious Jerks.” It’s difficult to figure out whether these guys are overcompensating for their lack of confidence, or low self-esteem, or just acting arrogantly. These attitudes immediately signal a man’s insecurities to a great woman. It’s a deal-breaker. So when you become aware of these messages, STOP sending them instantly.
2. Showcase The “Mr. Right” Attitude
Confidence is key is attracting a great woman, and being in a successful relationship. Highly confident men possess a sense of self-control, and they can combine it with the right amount of humor and cockiness. They seldom go overboard. While having a conversation with a woman, confident men never hold back from teasing a woman, but they keep it respectful. Broadcast your confidence by talking about light topics, but make sure to style it with uniqueness and sarcasm. Brag about the things you’re good at as well all the beautiful places you visited, but mix it with funny stories how you’ve also failed while achieving and doing it. It will make the ladies think that you’re indeed different from the rest.
3. Build Rapport
No matter how confident and in-control man you are, if you fail to communicate this to women, it won’t take you anywhere. What’s more upsetting is that most guys don’t know to connect to a woman emotionally they’ve just met or looks forward to date. The best way to do it is to find something in common with a woman such as interests, hobbies or life goals. It will help to establish a connection with her. Remember; don’t be rude, intrusive, or insecure with her if you want to accomplish this.
If you want to date a great woman, you need to do things differently. Stop sending all the wrong signal, broadcast your confidence and all of your good qualities, and build rapport, to stand out from the masses.